I passionately believe that you are not broken, no matter what life has put you through or what you might be going through right now. Although I understand that at times, it can feel like it. Believe me, I know.
Signs of Low Self Esteem
It's true, we all get dealt our fair share of problems to deal with, some very serious, and some more than others. Life is not fair. I too have not been exempt from the ups and downs of life but I agree with Victor Frankel (Professional Psychiatrist and Holocaust Survivor) who said everything can be taken away from you except one thing, the complete freedom to choose what things mean to you.
Typically, and especially if you have low self esteem or if you have doubts about yourself, people tend to filter things in life and highlight the bad or blame things on themselves. This is a sign of low self esteem. But life doesn't have to be like this.
The meaning you give to things that happen, changes everything.
The problem is most of us decided what meanings to give to things unconsciously and often, at a young age. At a time when we really didn't have the capacity to make important decisions like that.
We are no longer that person and can now make better decisions. We are not broken. You see it's not what happens to you that makes the difference, but what you do about it that counts - W MITCHEL.
Why not make a new decision today that enough is enough and it's time to start living life in a happier, more productive, and more successful way? I couldn't stand it anymore and just had to make a change. I used to suffer myself with so many things. Not having confidence, always feeling like I'm different from others, feeling down and worrying about things. I used to say that I could never have the relationship that I want or the home and job that I'd like and I used to be very frustrated with it.
Not once but twice I had some difficult and serious challenges but I can honestly say hand on heart that once I made that decision to look at things things in a different and intelligent way, I instantly started to see that I LOVE LIFE. And so can you no matter what your situation.
I couldn't have done it by myself. I needed to understand what had to change and how. I twice sought out help and when I did, I literally changed in a few days. I was so surprised how much it helped that I decided to get training on helping others in the same way.
I am Chris from Chris Ulliott Life Coaching. If you want to know more then like my page on Facebook and book a free, no obligation, Life Coaching Discovery Session with me to see what Life Coaching could do for you.
I'm really looking forward to talking with you.
If you have doubts about yourself and it's getting in the way of a happy and fulfilled life, you might be interested in my free book on beating self doubt here Self Doubt Book.